The Harm of Judging Others: How It Impacts Relationships and Growth

 How does it happen?

Many issues in society arise because people judge each other. How does this happen? When you start judging me, you'll inevitably find faults in my words and actions. Even the respected judges in the honorable courts doesn't have the rights to make decisions based on their personal judgments alone; They must follow the law! Since there are no written laws for what is right or wrong in human thoughts, people judge based on their own perceptions, leading to negative actions and spreading negativity.

What is Judging?

Let’s clarify what judging really is. As you read this post, you might form some opinions about me and what I’m saying. That’s natural and not what I mean by judging. Judging occurs when you take those opinions and make a firm decision that negatively impacts me or our relationship.

For example, if after reading this post, you think I'm talking nonsense, pointing fingers at you, or giving unsolicited advice, and then you start complaining about me to others, spreading negativity, or limiting our relationship, that is judging and consequences of Judging.

Judging is a toxic:

Judging others is like a poison that hurts relationships by breaking trust and understanding, creating barriers instead of connections. It leads to resentment and misunderstandings because we see others through our biases, causing conflicts and damaged bonds. Judging also stunts personal growth by limiting people to our narrow views, preventing us from appreciating diverse perspectives and fostering a negative environment.

How to get rid of this toxic?

Simple. Don't Judge :-) Ok. Don't judge means, Don't expect the other person to live for your right or wrong. Let them live there lives. If you have any suggestions, you can ask that person for that action or speech. If you can't ask them then let the person behave in his own ways. 

I'm repeating, Let the other person live their life. They are living for them and not for you.